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Sally Gabriel Ph.D.

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Some Healing Thoughts
Welcome to the Epilogue End of Life Care blog, where I offer insights, tips, and resources to support your mental and emotional well-being. Here, you’ll find helpful articles on topics such as managing death anxiety, improving relationships, understanding grief, and other topics related to deathcare and grief. My goal is to provide you with practical guidance and inspiration as you navigate these difficult transitions. Remember, I'm here to help you.


After-Loss Support: What to Do After a Loved One Dies
The days and months following a death can feel overwhelming. You do not have to navigate them alone.
As an End-of-Life Doula, Grief Educator, and After-Loss Professional, I provide compassionate after-loss support to help survivors manage both the emotional and practical challenges that follow a death.
Jul 64 min read


When You Lose a Partner: What Grief Really Looks Like (And How To Move Forward)
Losing a partner is one of the most destabilizing experiences a person can go through. People expect grief to be painful, of course they do. What they
don't expect is how completely it can disrupt their sense of self, their daily
rhythms, and the future they thought they were building. This kind of loss
isn't just sadness, it's disorientation.
Jun 14 min read


What Does an End-of-Life Doula Really Do? Insights from the Global Podcast Network
End-of-life care is something many people avoid thinking about, that is, until they’re faced with it. I recently had the honor of sharing my work, experience, and perspective on this important topic on the Global Podcast Network, where the role of an end-of-life doula was explored in depth. The conversation offered meaningful insight into how my work supports individuals and families during one of life’s most profound, and often misunderstood, transitions. Understanding the
Apr 143 min read


Sitting Vigil: What to Expect at the Bedside of Someone Who Is Dying
When a relative or close friend is dying, you may feel called to sit at their bedside. In the deathcare field, we call this “sitting vigil.” If you’ve never done it before, it can feel intimidating.What should you say?What should you do?Is there a “right” way to be present at the end of life? I have walked into rooms where family members stand quietly along the walls, watching their loved one from a distance—unsure how to help, unsure what’s allowed, clearly grieving and unco
Mar 93 min read


Advance Care Planning: Why It’s So Hard, and Why It Matters
Most of us don’t plan for the one thing that’s guaranteed, our death. There’s a “not now” or “I don’t want to talk about it” mentality that keeps many of us from preparing. Maybe it’s fear, denial, or the hope that by avoiding the topic, we can delay the inevitable. But the truth is this: death will come for each of us, and the people we love will one day face the emotional and practical aftermath of our passing. Still, only about 30% of Americans have completed any form of
Jan 134 min read


Hospice Worker vs. Death Doula: What’s the Real Difference?
When a loved one is nearing the end of life, families often meet two types of caregivers: hospice workers and death doulas. Both support people during one of the most vulnerable times of life, but they serve very different roles. Understanding the difference helps families get the full spectrum of care they deserve.
Nov 20, 20252 min read


Regrets People Have at the End of Life
Written from the heart, by someone who walks this sacred journey alongside others. I’ve sat at the bedside of many people as they near...
Aug 26, 20253 min read


How to Have Tough Conversations About Death & Dying
Epilogue End of Life Care Talking about death is never easy. It can feel uncomfortable, scary, or even taboo—but it’s also one of the...
Jul 20, 20253 min read


The Legacy Project: How Do You Want to Be Remembered?
We spend our lives building — families, businesses, memories, homes. But how often do we pause to ask: How do I want to be remembered?...
Jun 12, 20253 min read


Is Death our Enemy, Frenemy, or Friend?
Most humans fear death, and often view it as an enemy, a joy-killer. The idea of death threatens our everyday existence and often makes...
Apr 28, 20253 min read
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